The Desire to Learn How to Read

When my son was about 4 years old, he asked me to teach him to read.  At the time, I was a single mother, who worked full-time. Let me just say that I missed a great opportunity.  No matter how busy I was, I should have taken his request to heart.  I probably figured he'd be in school the following year and they would teach him.  By the time he was in first grade he was in special reading classes for those who had fallen behind.  They would pull him out of class, on a regular basis, and have the special ed teacher work with him.  For many years after that reading was a struggle for him.  I didn't like seeing him struggle, and even back then, regretted my procrastination. 

A few years later, when my daughter Sarah was about one, I would find her sitting quietly in a corner looking at books.  She had a love of books I have never seen in any child before.  At that point, I was reminded of Zachary's struggles and I was determined that I would never let that happen again.  So, when she was 4, and said she wanted to learn to read, I was determined not to miss the opportunity a second time.  Reading came natural to her and by the time she was 5 she was reading 3rd grade books. She is now 8 and can read anything she is given (although she is monitored). 

I know every child is different. But, when I look at my own experiences, I can't help but wonder if we shouldn't listen to our childrens requests more.  If they are asking to learn, teach them.  Do your best.  You don't have to have them reading books, but teach them the letter sounds, etc.  It is proven that learning is easier when you are young.  Children can learn multiple languages and music much easier.  Maybe, that can be said for reading too.

~Kristine